One of us is going on a cruise when your divorce or modification is over. Either me and my kids or you and your kids. That's because you'll either pay me thousands of extra dollars to get you the microwave oven or you won't. Between the betrayal, hurt feelings, and rage, its easy to get your attention diverted from the real goal which is to end your litigation as quickly and efficiently as possible. Does that mean you have to leave something on the table? No, of course not. We'll be happy to go to Court to get you that microwave that has sentimental value. Or you can go to Walmart and buy 10 microwaves and every time you make popcorn, throw away the empty bag as well as the oven. You'll still save a ton of money and grief.